by Vanessa Loder | May 8, 2023 | Uncategorized |
We often make up stories about people. Like, she must be so confident. Or he thinks his ideas are so superior. But we don’t look under the hood to 1) really get to know the person or 2) check out if our assumptions are true or 3) tell other people how their...
by Vanessa Loder | Apr 18, 2023 | Blog Posts |
When you describe your life to others, or even in your own mind, what are you saying? What story are you telling about yourself? Our narratives become our reality. Learn to let go of your old story and step into a new one – vomit noises help! A super quick, fun...
by Vanessa Loder | Mar 18, 2023 | Blog Posts |
In the last few weeks, we talked about how to create identity level change, and how to live from the inside out by allowing your core self to lead the way. Quick recap: The autobiographical self is the ego-based identity that consists of the stories we tell about...
by Vanessa Loder | Mar 18, 2023 | Blog Posts |
Last week, we talked about how to create real, lasting behavior change by focusing on your identity, thoughts and feelings rather than your actions and results. If you want different results, you must think different thoughts and cultivate different feelings. If you...
by Vanessa Loder | Mar 18, 2023 | Blog Posts |
For the past ten years, I’ve studied how to create change in human behavior. Mostly, I’ve been marinating in my own petri dish (and it ain’t always been pretty.) And, I’ve had the honor of supporting thousands of other beautiful souls in discovering a life of greater...
