by Vanessa Loder | Oct 20, 2020 | Blog Posts |
Last week, we talked about how to set healthy boundaries. In addition to boundary creep, many people asked me; “Vanessa, I can’t seem to focus. My energy is low and my attention is so fragmented these days.” Be on your own side. First off, it’s super important to be...
by Vanessa Loder | Oct 13, 2020 | Blog Posts |
Lately, I’ve had several conversations with people craving better boundaries. Our work/home boundaries have become incredibly blurry and this can be hard to navigate. Here’s what people have shared: Dual-income partners both working from home; sharing office and...
by Vanessa Loder | Aug 31, 2020 | Blog Posts |
In the midst of a global pandemic, with uncertainty and anxiety raging, is it ridiculous and privileged to wonder what it takes to create work and a life you love? Or is that the most vital question we can ask right now? I would argue the latter. In times of crisis,...
by Vanessa Loder | Aug 13, 2020 | Blog Posts |
,Before we jump into today’s post, I want to make sure you know: The Create Work You Love Program (CWYL) is opening up soon! This is our program for women who want guidance and support in creating meaningful, fulfilling work that allows you to feel energized instead...
by Vanessa Loder | Aug 11, 2020 | Blog Posts |
Thank you to those of you who answered our quick survey on how to Create Work You Love. (it’s not too late if you want to send me your top two questions HERE) One of the most common questions we got was: How do you get started? How do you begin taking your first step...
by Vanessa Loder | Jul 21, 2020 | Blog Posts |
SThis is getting tiring. Recently while facilitating a group coaching call, the women said things like; “I feel like I’m in a holding pattern, an airplane circling. How can I do some things to feel like I’m continuing my life rather than feeling like my...
by Vanessa Loder | Jul 20, 2020 | Blog Posts |
I was recently on a call about racial justice during which several white people shared how the current climate has woken them up to their white privilege and what they’re doing about it. Afterwards, I reflected on my own need to prove I’m a “good person” by trying to...
by Vanessa Loder | Jun 30, 2020 | Blog Posts |
The other morning, I went into a massive downward spiral. (that’s what I call it when I get really down, and one bad thought leads to another.) It started when a friend innocently recommended a lovely woman’s Instagram account with recipes for an anti-grain...
by Vanessa Loder | Jun 2, 2020 | Blog Posts |
Living in America, my heart is heavy. Words are inadequate. The majority of this community is white women. Many white women are waking up to the fact that we need to do and be more. As a white woman of privilege, I’ve done too little. Been too complacent and ignorant....
by Vanessa Loder | May 27, 2020 | Blog Posts |
Anyone else feeling the quarantine fatigue?! Things are really starting to wear thin. If you’re snapping at your loved ones, irritated by your friends or yelling at your kids…you’re not alone. If you’re in a deep process of grief, crippled by anxiety, or...
