by Vanessa Loder | May 8, 2023 | Uncategorized |
We often make up stories about people. Like, she must be so confident. Or he thinks his ideas are so superior. But we don’t look under the hood to 1) really get to know the person or 2) check out if our assumptions are true or 3) tell other people how their...
by Vanessa Loder | Jul 24, 2019 | Uncategorized |
After our recent blog about dealing with negative colleagues at work, several people reached out asking; “Can you please write about how to come together with your partner?” What if one person in a relationship changes? One woman asked; “How can I be close to my...
by Vanessa Loder | Apr 23, 2019 | Uncategorized |
Originally Published on Forbes. Burnout is defined as physical or mental collapse caused by overwork or stress. As it turns out, there are ways to identify the early warning signs of burnout. And, there are many simple practices you can put in place immediately to...
by Vanessa Loder | Mar 25, 2019 | Uncategorized |
Previously Published in Elephant Journal Today, I’m sharing a personal story that was recently published in Elephant Journal. A chance encounter at the vet’s office turned poignant. Our cat, who is unsuitably named Bear, limped into the house one morning...
by Vanessa Loder | Mar 18, 2019 | Uncategorized |
Thank you for being part of this special community. Over the years, we’ve received hundreds of questions from you and today, I want to address a specific theme that keeps coming up again and again. This common theme has to do with enough-ness. You’ve asked these...
by Vanessa Loder | Feb 25, 2019 | Uncategorized |
Have you ever pleased others at the expense of your own desires? (Um..guilty as charged!) Or have you ignored your inner voice for what you “should” do? (Yup, I’ve done that one too.) Since quitting my job in finance to start my own business, I’ve had to continually...
